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[–] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

Dude on the right should be saying "I wouldn't date you either."

[–] Nerdybynature@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The last conservative I matched with was immediately bragging about being unvaccinated, was in his late 30’s, openly religious, desperate for kids.

If you’re openly conservative, you’re baring your soul about women’s rights, and if women don’t want to sleep with you as a result, you made your damn bed.

[–] Tb0n3@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Some women dig that. Not every woman believes the same things you do. There's even a thing called the quiver full movement where people like the duggars deliberately have as many children as possible to outnumber people like you.

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[–] Kinda_Coral@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Call that the free market economy biiiaaatch

[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's not true; I'd date someone I could reasonably discuss fiscal policy about taxation with.

So maybe it's not so much they won't date you because you're conservative and more that you're openly embracing fascism....

[–] Bristlecone@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Why is it the only time I ever hear the word "fiscal" is when a conservative is defending their entire half of the political sphere 😂 let's all look past the human rights abuses and absurd gerrymandering/rigging of the entire democratic system and just think about the "fiscal responsibility" aspect (That, paradoxically, only ever actually seems to drive the national debt up faster when conservatives are in charge)

[–] WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

'fiscal conservative' = supports tax cuts for the rich because they believe in trickle-down theory, still, somehow

[–] Thteven@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What could be more fiscally responsible than not paying off your debts?

[–] Marketsupreme@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

PPP loan forgiveness for everyone (except the working class that's not for you you greedy bastards)

[–] HornyOnMain@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

ngl, last time some conservative started flirting with me she got pissed of when i said i wasnt interested because they were a tory flag shagger, and then she called me a slur because im queer

[–] ruination@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 years ago

It's like how kids throw meaningless insults when throwing a tantrum because they know they can't win in a proper argument.

[–] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

Fuck 'em. No wait, don't.

[–] grissee@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

posts like these make me wish lemmy has sort by controversial button

[–] Zednix@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

You should date someone with at least some reasonable overlap of ideals. If you wish to have a family unit, like conservatives certainly do, you need to have common ground and mutual respect or you will end up with yet another single mother raising a potentially negative statistic and father losing his child or bailing.

[–] Lazylazycat@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Why would anyone date a conservative, it isn't safe?

[–] Dasnap@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Imagine dating someone whose beliefs actively belittle you.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Even if it was safe like ew you don’t believe in equality that’s just unattractive af

[–] NewEnglandRedshirt@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Your username indicates you don't do much dating of men... (Not that it invalidates your point)

[–] PostmodernPythia@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Women can be conservatives too. Still gross.

[–] Poot@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Margorie Taylor Green fits in here. shudders

[–] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

It’s a long-lost heteronym: Woe, man.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

There are absolutely conservative queer women, they’re very much not the sort of person you want to date

[–] RobertPetersen@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Well, Republicans tend to vote for policies that go against their own self-interests if they get boogeyman’s enough by Tucker and Donald, so it wouldn’t surprise me that there exist Conservative women who date against their own self interests.

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[–] popemichael@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I almost dated a conservative but covid saved me.

The moment it hit, her conservative powers went omega level and I was able to dodge a bullet by wanting to vaccinate early

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, just you wait. You be dead by CHRISTmas 2021. That wat you get to.

Either you be dead or you be turned too zombie to be controlled by Fow-chi Chinese army.

This hole thing poplation control. Wat wuflu dont kill, vaxine will. Or zombie like I said.

Mark my world. Ded by CHRISTmas 2021. Mark my world

Soros. Hoosane Obama. Fow-chi. Biden. CNN. That ur god.

She dodge the bullet.

:p

[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Mark my world got me. I'm picturing her squatting near some building to mark it as hers.

[–] CaptFeather@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

R Kelly style

[–] popemichael@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The really funny part was she was pretty normal until MAGA and the alt right radicalized her via lies

She turned into that shockingly quickly

My best guess is that something was wrong with her that she hid deep inside until it was let out

[–] Perfide@reddthat.com 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

My best guess is that something was wrong with her that she hid deep inside until it was let out

Probably. Reminds me a lot of the guys back in HS who would be super women positive and "feminist" when girls were in earshot, but say horrendously awful shit when it was "just us guys"(I wasn't friends with them either, they just thought it was ok to say around guys in general), up to and including rape apologia in at least one instance. All asshole trump supporters now last I knew.

And they wondered why 90% of my friends in HS were girls.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

They call it "locker room talk", I call it "being a complete asshole but too cowardly to do so publicly"

[–] topRamen@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Always better to date someone in which you share values with.

[–] wwaxwork@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Always better to date someone that thinks you have rights.

[–] dottedgreenline@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Being ok with being conservative is akin to being ok with being stupid. It's basically an admission of idiocy.

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[–] Lunar@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 years ago (7 children)

Good lord the replies to this are sad. Believe it or not it's a perfectly reasonable expectation to only want to date someone whose core beliefs align with yours (and, y'know, actually respects your rights as an independent human being.)

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

"in looking for a woman who will respect my core beliefs as an independent human being, which include not treating her like an independent human being"

[–] Syrc@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As someone with a right-wing father and a left-wing mother: for fuck’s sake date people with your same beliefs. Deep disagreement on something like that is NOT something you can build a trustful relationship upon.

[–] RatMaster@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Holy shit, I can't imagine being in such a relationship even just for a small amount of time. Having kids with someone I fundamentally disagree with is just on another level.

I guess if you're not into politics/news at all, it can kind of happen. 🤷

[–] Syrc@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Admittedly, we’re not in the US so the divide is much smaller, but Jesus Christ listening to them arguing over half the stuff that came up on TV has definitely not been a pleasant experience.

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