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[–] neons@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 days ago

As someone who calls himself that:

"I am a liberal but the liberal want to go after the upper middle class instead of after the top 0.1%"

P.S: I'm from Switzerland, so don't tell me about Trump. I knoe he's a fascist and I would have voted against him. But here in Switzerland we have more moderate choices.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I am socially liberal and with my personal budget, fiscally conservative. Government money? Different priorities, plenty of stuff would be cheaper when we pool our money like that, so I'm not sure what fiscally conservative means. My gut reaction is that this person isn't socially liberal because regressive government fiscal policies harm the population, you can't really split it out like that. I guess it's someone who doesn't care who you marry or how you dress but also doesn't care if the schools are any good or if there is any enforcement of the rights to do the socially liberal things.

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Libertarian

[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It makes sense to me. There's no middle ground anymore and nowhere for these people to go. It sucks. Many people want fiscal conservatism but also support common sense social issues. I don't see what's so weird about this. The people accusing these people of being republicans or bad people are fucking idiots and shows the average understanding of politics/policy on Lemmy.

Edit: To clarify, I'm not saying that this describes me. Just that i totally understand it.

[–] the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Just like every other liberal they are a nazi sympathizer.

You have no party if you are American as our conservative movement abandoned any form of fiscal responsibility 30-40 years ago. When was the last time a tax cut was paired with a reduction in spending? Oh yeah that last happened in 1983

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 2 points 6 days ago

Understands the importance of kidness and empathy but doesn't understand economics

[–] drascus@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago

I think "I want to keep my money and let you get gay married"

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I won't waste my life savings on hookers and blow but you should absolutely have the freedom to do so without judgment

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

Me as an ESL being utterly confused by people's replies when apparently I understand "conservative" as per Merriam Webster dictionary definition 2.a "marked by moderation or caution"

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[–] AlternatePersonMan@lemmy.world 182 points 1 week ago (11 children)

"I'm an uninformed idiot."

Conservatives are fiscally reckless. Look at every conservative president's deficit spending, and economic crashes. Look at the states most dependent on federal funds.

Even if you had zero morals and voted 100% on fiscal policies, the best choice is very clearly not conservative.

[–] Moobythegoldensock@lemm.ee 98 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I link this article every time the discussion comes up:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U.S._economic_performance_by_presidential_party

The first paragraph is a doozy.

[–] singletona@lemmy.world 56 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hence why republicans want to get rid of Wikipedia. For all of its faults they generally do a decent job of going slash and burn on any editors that cannot fully back themselves up or have clear political alegances.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 23 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Seeing the complete flopping of conservapedia, of course they want to get rid of it.

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[–] vvilld@lemmy.world 100 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"I don't hate you because you're a POC, a woman, or queer. I hate you because you're poor."

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago

“I’m a prick but I also like to smoke weed”

[–] DigDoug@lemmy.world 63 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Either "I hate poor people but I love weed" or "I'm lying because my actual views would scare people off".

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[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 56 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Conservativism, in all forms, is not a real ideology. It's narcissism. A conservative will redefine conservative values based on their own identity.

So the "socially liberal, fiscally conservative" idiot is lying to themselves about who they are. They want fiscal policies that benefit themselves, and they don't want to be labelled a bigot, but they are fine with bigots in office as long as they get the fiscal policies that benefit themselves.

Ask them what they mean by "fiscal conservative," and they will probably vaguely gesture and say "lower taxes." What they mean is "lower taxes for me." Fiscal conservatives still want to spend government money on programs they like. They want boondoggles in their backyard, earmarks and pork barrel projects, and social safety nets as long as they are the recipient (Medicare, Social Security, Veteran benefits, etc.)

They want to frame it as responsible restraint. Pull funding from programs they don't understand, like scientific research, or don't like, like foreign aid (except of course if strong ties to their home country).

And when they say lower taxes, when pressed, they will describe how their property tax or income tax or capital gains tax or death tax is really bad "for the economy." They want good schools and roads and infrastructure, but they want someone else to pay for it.

Calling themselves conservative gives them license to be as selfish as they want to be without having to admit that they don't actually have any values.

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The hatred of property tax really pisses me off.

I have a mortgage on the house in which I reside. I have to pay property tax on the house in which I reside. My annual property taxes are less than half the minimum monthly payment for my mortgage. If I can afford my monthly payment I can afford my taxes. If I can't afford my monthly payment the taxes aren't the problem.

And what do I actually get for that less than half a monthly mortgage payment in annual taxes?

  • 2 large parks with miles of walking paths, a playground, a basketball and a soccer court, all maintained and within 2 blocks
  • maintained roads to my house that are cleaned regularly
  • decent schools nearby

Yes, I recognize I got lucky and am privileged enough to have, not just stable housing, but that which I "own," but that just makes my distaste of the hatred of property taxes all the greater.

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[–] Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world 50 points 1 week ago

“I don’t hate women and minorities but I don’t see anything wrong with an economy built off of their exploitation.”

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

"I vote Republican, but I'm self-aware enough to know that I should be embarrassed about it." (In the US)

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[–] beefnugget@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago

"I don't actively hunt members of marginalized communities with one of my many obnoxiously customized firearms but I still have a weird kink for giving tax cuts to billionaires in exchange for a worsened quality of life because I have a 12 year old's understanding of how the world works."

[–] Iceblade02@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Euro perspective - When I hear fiscally conservative, that means supporting a governmental policy that is frugal with spending and responsible with public assets and finances.

This has several parts, here are some of the most important:

a) Keeping a balanced budget - the government should not be spending more than it is collecting from taxes and income. (A little debt in dire times is fine, but that should be payed off when possible)

b) Responsible management and long term planning - the planning horizon should be counted in decades

c) Focusing on core tasks: national security, infrastructure, healthcare, education etc.

d) Not raising taxes unless strictly necessary, lowering them if it is permissible according to the above.

Socially liberal => supports personal liberties

Now why does government debt even matter? Well, because debt is owed somewhere, and if it becomes large may mean that the government is beholden to other parties for the debt.

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[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago

"I don't care about minorities enough to sacrifice anything about my way of living."

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

As someone who has used the term before.

Social liberal: I think you should be able to do whatever you want in your personal life, even if it harms yourself. I'm willing to negotiate with harming consenting adults while recognizing the possibility, even likelihood, of an imbalance of power making it difficult to properly give consent, or for it to be recognized by the public at large, e.g., maybe Amazon workers aren't really okay with peeing in bottles because they don't have enough time or facilities for bathroom breaks, just because they accepted the job. Doing things that harm those you have guardianship over is not acceptable because they are not in a position to give consent.

Fiscal conservative: I want money in the public trust to be spent effectively. This doesn't mean I want less taxes, I'm in fact okay with more. A city near me has 30% of its budget dedicated to police services, yet we have some of the highest violent crime in Canada. The simple fact is, a lot of crime is driven by poverty and lack of opportunity. So why are we paying to catch and jail poor people with no skills who are trying to survive and not paying for skills training, robust childhood education, and at least minimal supports so people don't have to be desperate enough to risk their lives and mine so they can survive? It doesn't make sense and there's no indication it's working. FYI, school meal programs tend to help the local economy to the tune of about $7 for every $1 you spend on them. That sounds terribly fiscally responsible to me...

[–] Mossheart@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

By chance are you talking about Surrey BC?

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

Afraid not.

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[–] Azal@pawb.social 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

"I'm a dumbass who's too embarrassed to say I vote Republican."

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[–] squinky@lemm.ee 21 points 1 week ago

I used to say this. And I believed it. It’s a lie people tell themselves because they’re voting for terrible things and don’t want to take credit for half of it.

“I kill the poor but I’m sad about it” gtfo

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't like paying taxes to fund public services, but I don't care what consenting adults do in their own bedrooms

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[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

"I'm not gay, but $20 is $20."

[–] arotrios@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

I will get high with you, and then turn you into the cops when you can't pay rent.

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