▲ 12 ▼ Weak ego (lemmy.world) submitted 10 months ago by venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world to c/autism@lemmy.world 5 comments fedilink hide all child comments Do you have a weak ego? Is it usual for people on the autistic spectrum to have a weak ego?
[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago (3 children) What does this even mean? Can you further define ego and how it can be classified as "weak" or "strong"? permalink fedilink source hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children) Weak Ego Core idea: Fragile, unstable sense of self. Examples: Needs validation. Changes personality to fit the group. Identity shifts based on the people around them Healthy Ego Core idea: Balanced confidence, Very solid internal core, high independence. Examples: Can admit mistakes without shame. Holds boundaries kindly. Handles stress without panicking. Doesn’t need to prove anything. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 child) Interesting. I don't think I would classify these behaviors has ego, but as social anxiety. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 1 point 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) No I mean the "unstable self" part. Someone with an unstable self can be easily manipulated and hurt. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children) Weak Ego Core idea: Fragile, unstable sense of self. Examples: Needs validation. Changes personality to fit the group. Identity shifts based on the people around them Healthy Ego Core idea: Balanced confidence, Very solid internal core, high independence. Examples: Can admit mistakes without shame. Holds boundaries kindly. Handles stress without panicking. Doesn’t need to prove anything. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 child) Interesting. I don't think I would classify these behaviors has ego, but as social anxiety. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 1 point 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) No I mean the "unstable self" part. Someone with an unstable self can be easily manipulated and hurt. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 child) Interesting. I don't think I would classify these behaviors has ego, but as social anxiety. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 1 point 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) No I mean the "unstable self" part. Someone with an unstable self can be easily manipulated and hurt. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] venkman_lemmy@lemmy.world [S] 1 point 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) No I mean the "unstable self" part. Someone with an unstable self can be easily manipulated and hurt. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 10 months ago Ego is typically considered bad Are you talking about self confidence? permalink fedilink source
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