Title is a lie, but a welcome one

Not really. With medications and nerves I've run the gamut from premature to fully unable to finish, and this is not something I usually have trouble with. Maybe its because I am in a BDSM couple and often my focus is already split between the physical sensations and the work needed to make a scene good for my partner. Sex is engaging enough I generally get hyperfocused rather than having intrusive chore thoughts.

You'll definitely get some attention 😍

Woof! Happy to have you here. I hope you enjoy being here as much as your presence will enrich this space for others 😊

I agree that its pretty shitty that people do that. You shouldn't be down voted for them not reading the title. A possible innocent explanation is that the dick pics aren't particularly good, I have heard anecdotally that a lot of people who like penises would be happier if the angles and settings of many dick pics were better. That said I don't really believe its innocent, more likely internalized homophobia that hasn't been super processed.

I think that only really applies when viewing from lemmynsfw. Other instances will still record upvotes and down votes on lemmynsfw posts but lemmynsfw itself doesn't view them. At least that is what I read a while back.