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[–] 90 points 1 week ago (14 children)

Have to admit, before I wanted a partner, I needed to build a proper "nest" to impress any potential mates. Got a home theater setup. All the right accoutrements and candles. Nice dishes, furniture, the works. I had designs to slay so much after I was done with the place. The only person I ever brought home ended up marrying me.

Before that? Mattress on the floor. One desk and chair for the computer. Didn't even have a TV.

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  • [–] 76 points 1 week ago (10 children)

    This is the advice men need to hear. Cleanliness and a hand towel go a long way, too. Also no one wants to fuck in a smelly apartment, clean your damn cat box.

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  • [–] 39 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    A trashcan in the bathroom let me know my husband was the one.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    How do people both simultaneously shame men for understanding and not understanding women's needs?

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  • [–] 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I think this more of a bar in hell thing. Who wouldn't have a trashcan in the bathroom? A demon.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I mean I dunno but I’ve had a trashcan in every room rule since I left home so maybe I am the problem. The bathroom ones got a removable sleeve so I can empty it into the big trash can to make it slightly easier to clean but that’s more a recent thing it’s not rocket science.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Before that? Mattress on the floor. One desk and chair for the computer. Didn’t even have a TV.

    It can be very practical to live like that when you're on your own! I get it haha.

    The only person I ever brought home ended up marrying me.

    Damn, maybe you found your alternative career if the current one fails!

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    Damn, maybe you found your alternative career if the current one fails!

    Maybe it is genetic. My uncle did interior design for a living. To be honest, it was both difficult and easy at the same time because I knew what kinda colors I liked but needed to pick a scheme that said "responsible adult you want to fuck". What's hilarious is that my partner and I am not home decorator people. Current home is definitely not something you'd see in a magazine. It was easy to spruce up a little studio apartment, more effort when the space is a lot bigger lol

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  • I always liked hosting people. So even when I had trouble getting dates (most of my 20's), I still kept my place in a condition that was good for having people over, and regularly had friends and family over. Plus I always had roommates so my home would always be a place where at least some social interaction would occur.

    So it's kinda wild to me to hear about people not having their apartments in a condition where people they liked and trusted could see and give feedback.

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