Honestly, I find the gameplay of older JRPGs generally insufferable as well.
Give me Chrono Trigger or at least Golden Sun, where we have a bit more complex and interesting actual game mechanics, as well as very very good plot lines, characters, soundtracks, etc.
But uh yeah, sounds like you are probably about 10 years older than me? And/or just ... don't really play too many games?
I dunno, thats the 'vibe' I'm getting, but hey I also think Disco is phenomenal.
I dunno uh, ever seen or played Windwaker?
That game was pretty controversial when it came out, for shifting Zelda into a very cartoony art style...
... but now its generally remembered as a very unique and basically timeless art style, that a lot of people sort of use as a foundation for their own styles, when trying to make a game.