cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/51465593

Damn. I didn't know that Roy was such a vanilla boy!

https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/149205226

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[–] 29 points 1 month ago (8 children)

CW for mention of rapeI actually knew a guy in an anime fangroup, who had a rape fetish so bad, that he couldn't stop complaining about NSFW artwork that depicted consensual sex in any form. Allegedly he got banned from that group after one of the mods found out he was a rapist, who raped his girlfriend multiple times, and even got the police involved.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    My ex left me because I wouldn't rape her, so she found someone who would.

    And she wasn't doing the whole, "revisit your trauma in a situation where you have control," thing. She was never abused, and didn't even want there to be a safe word.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago

    Not having a safe word is maybe over the line but I feel like in general that's just a case of indulging in a partner's fetishes/fantasies. It isn't really rape if both of you consented before hand, it's just role play. That said, I'd probably also want to meet somewhere in the middle, I'd have a hard time continuing if I was being asked to stop, even if consent had previously been given.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Pretty sure somewhere on the internet I read that this was a super common fantasy, but I don't want to do the research to confirm. There's probably nuance to it, but it's definitely uncomfortable to consider.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    ::: spoiler I had hoped it was a rape fetish where he was the victim instead :::

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