transcriptScreenshot of a tweet by @feralhousepuppy: hey so you've been calling me "bro", "man", and "dude" a lot and it's really invalidating to my masculinity cause those are all gender neutral things you call trans women :/

Screenshot of a tweet by @feralhousepuppy: hey so you've been calling me "bro", "man", and "dude" a lot and it's really invalidating to my masculinity cause those are all gender neutral things you call trans women :/
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[–] 4 points 1 week ago (1 child)

Mate doesn't pluralise well though, 'I'm going out with my mates' is fine but 'hi mates' sounds wrong. Also a lot of it is in the delivery, calling someone 'mate' can be anything from friendly to neutral to hostile depending on the tone and the words which precede it.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago*

    Of course "Hi mates!" feels wrong, it needs to be either "g'day mates" or "ahoy mateys" or "oy mates"...

    Sorry.

    Btw. you have the same "problem" (imho, feature) of tone determining level of friendliness with dude, dude. And partly even with bro, though bro feels harder to turn unfriendly when adressing someone.

    For me, "Hi mates" or "oy mates" sounds completely okay, but I'm a non-native speaker.

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