are you serious? you're blaming your kid for your mistakes?
she's a kid. kids don't know what trash is, tell/teach her what the trash is. stop expecting a child to understand what you mean without giving them instruction.
reminds me of every shitty coach I had as a kid. 'just hit/catch the ball'. and they get pissed off when you made a mistake, and then basically tell you you just suck and should quit.
Then the good coaches would... actually teach you how to hit and catch the ball... and then tell you what you did wrong when you made a mistake... and you'd... get better at playing the game... and you'd go from being crappy to being a lot better...