I do quite firmly believe I have witnessed the death rattles of Reddit with this dystopian data farming nonsense. Absolutely nothing is worth this belittling monitoring shite.

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[–] 11 points 3 days ago (33 children)

Lemmy has just as many comments as reddit does these days.

What's the point of a forum like this without any people contributing to it?

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  • [–] 16 points 3 days ago (32 children)

    Not having to wade through spam and hate.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 days ago (31 children)

    More diversity would help with the amount of hate already bubbling up here.

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    More women and more people of color would help balance some of the male-dominated takes that are often supported and uplifted here. There's a lot of sexism and racism that is tolerated or at least appears tolerated because there's no visible pushback.

    More diversity leads to humanizing others and reducing hate being directed at certain groups.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 days ago (6 children)

    Yeah, that's why I joined a queer instance

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  • [–] 5 points 3 days ago (5 children)

    It would be cool to have some queer representation spread out as well. I don't like the idea of allowing the jerks to be the predominant voice in such a space like this when there's a lot of other people I'd love to hear from instead.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 days ago (3 children)

    I don't have the spoons to teach others not to be assholes anymore. I use social spaces in small doses and bursts.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

    Very understandable! I hope your corners of the internet continue to be supportive and fun :)

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  • [–] 0 points 3 days ago

    i had a wierd ban from blahaj the other week, dint realize they were this annoying as the startrek website dude. i think alot of the lgbtq+ went back to reddit, once the large instance shut down last year.

    i think most of them are on reddit, and they usually are niche enough they dont get too much attention, i think its a good thing though, because too much attention will just draw into many homophobes.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 days ago (14 children)

    You don't like the skin colour distribution on Lemmy?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 days ago* (13 children)

    Eh, I think this place is populated primarily by cis white men and that can have an effect on what type of comments and posts are tolerated.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

    Could be. I haven't seen any demographic data. There does seem to be a lot of LGBTQ+ people, but that could just be the forums I'm using.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago (2 children)

    Well, I didn't mention anything about sexual orientation in my comment, but yeah there does seem to be more LGBTQ+ people than the average here. I still think it's mostly cis white men.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 days ago (7 children)

    Eh, I think this place is populated primarily by cis white men

    Maybe that's because of your own prejudices.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 days ago (6 children)

    No, I really think that’s the majority demographic here. Like statistically, not emotionally.

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    There's a lot of sexism and racism that is tolerated or at least appears tolerated because there's no visible pushback.

    Could you define sexism/racism? It's gotten to the point where those words are like "woke" and can mean anything to anyone.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 days ago (4 children)

    It is marginally harder to be a butt when you know you are going to get called on it

    That said, it is pretty much an echo chamber in here

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  • [–] 4 points 3 days ago (3 children)

    Depends, smaller focused groups can kick out bigots better than massive spaces from my experience.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 days ago* (1 child)

    A lot of the smaller groups kick out people who just disagree with them

    And not just for being racists or bigots

    For example, I don’t personally believe that the kind of people who can afford to commute by bike need a safe space to be protected from someone pointing out that their expressed glee at auto accidents is callously political.

    If you do your comments will be deleted.

    They have some things to teach Musk about being snowflakes.

    (Really, in modern US cities, only rich white dudes commute by bike. No single mom is biking her kids to daycare on her way to her shift at the chemical plant. Those roads don’t get bike lanes anyway.)

    Edit: and the mod deleted my post for bigotry lol

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  • [–] 2 points 3 days ago

    i always found the bike community forums/subs always have wierd obsession in trying to turn everywhere they think they can ride into a bike only zone. people sitll need to commute by car or public transit, it just hurts those people. and there bike communities in irl that are douchey.

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