I think im bisexual genderfluid. I like both, boys and girls, and i like being both, boy and girl.
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Easier to tease them apart once you start liking yourself more.
And eventually you realize that your style and your type are the same…
How to pls?
How to tell them apart or how to like yourself more?
Well, for us it was a lot of introspection and surrounding ourselves with people who wouldn't be upset with us for being ourself. Also, hrt. HRT is magic (and I felt a lot better once I started injections rather than pills).
If you're allowing yourself to be yourself and not suppressing your emotions, then all you really need is time.
As for how to tell them apart, well, I am less jealous of others now that I like the way I look more, and if I want to dress or act a certain way I just do that. So i'm projecting onto others less, so I have less opportunities to get those feelings confused.
Thank you! I have thought about HRT a lot and my therapist actually specializes in that so I should probably talk to them about it more. I am doing a lot better at being myself but still struggle (also doubting myself when I am myself because am I doing this because it is who I am or because it is who I want to be, and does that even make sense?)
I had this thought for a long time. What made me realise is that even though I like gals, I also want stuff for myself. Wanting to have the right parts, for example.
Its so true, its tough feeling like this and not knowing why. With me i couldnt figure out what the meaning of what i felt was.
Ive had a few "crushes" that felt weird to me because i never thought about being intimate with them, i just wanted to be around them ALL THE TIME. Later figured out this is why lmao
The illusion… YOU’RE QUEER AS FUCK Do I want to be her, or be with her? …of free choice.
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