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If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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[–] HungryJerboa@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Doxx them.

What, that isn't allowed? Well neither is white supremacist hate speech. Fuck that trash.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 day ago

Stop calling yourself leftist you hateful fuck.

[–] FarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I tend to not reply because that will just draw more attention to them. I will post a separate top level comment rebutting their statements without referring to them.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

That's a good strategy, thanks.

Ignore them, then vote accordingly. Nothing you or I say will have any effect

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 125 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

i find this very satisfying: gently disagreeing with them via a short single positive message like "gay people do deserve respect", then letting them throw a very lengthy, time-invested tantrum before gently and completely disagreeing with their comment with another short sentence, over and over until they get tired.

i find that both very funny and I'm putting out positive messages that negate their bigotry without too much time or effort.

that's just if you have the time and inclination to engage, you aren't morally obligated to subject yourself to abusive behavior.

if it's real bad, they're probably violating a rule, and reporting them will get them banned

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[–] r0ertel@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's a lot of other good suggestions here, so I'll just ask, what outcome are you hoping to achieve?

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] r0ertel@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If that's the case, I'd recommend treating them like spam: reply and you'll get a lot more.

Mostly, it's a huge emotional and time investment if you want to change someone's behavior and from what I gather, it's a one on one type of thing and really hard. If you want to stop them from interacting negatively with others, your best action would be to report them.

If you're upset and want to vent, then engaging will be fun for a while, but mostly futile in terms of behaviour adjustments.

[–] lapping6596@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If I respond, it's mostly for the 'audience'. I used to argue on r/libertarian or r/conservative, not to change the other person's mind, but to add a different opinion to the thread. I doubt I ever convinced the other person of anything, but hope I got other people to think a bit more about some of the policies being advocated for.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

This makes it look like the post is popular and draws more attention. Depending on the platform, it signals the algorithm to show it to more people.

Doing this is engaging exactly the way they expect you to engage, it helps no one.

[–] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Report their comments, most instances will ban them unless they comment on a Nazi instance in which case good riddance.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 9 points 2 days ago

If its a nazi instance, ask your admin to defederate.

Call them a dumbass removed idiot

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 40 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Did you report this person? Racists are usually quickly dispensed with, because if they’re allowed to continue unchallenged then this will become a Nazi bar.

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[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago

Generally, my tactic is to not engage directly, but address the rest of the audience, essentially pointing at the subject and mocking him ("Can you believe this MAGA Traitor?..."). When he tries to respond, again ignore him, and just point and laugh.

They get really frustrated being made fun of, without having the satisfaction of creating liberal outrage.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago (7 children)

You're not gonna change their mind.

You'd be better spending your time breaking a brick wall with your skull.

Fuck em. Block em.

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