Many international fans visiting the US for the World Cup have become frustrated by the culture of tipping servers, telling the BBC that tipping fatigue has set in.

England supporter Geoff Pryor said he understood tipping for good service, but he found it "weird" when buying a bottle of water and "they try to get a tip for doing nothing".

In the US, staff at some restaurants and bars are paid just over $2 (£1.50) an hour, and they expect customers to tip about 20% of the total cost of the bill so they can earn a living.

Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been bad tippers.

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[–] 192 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Let's fix this headline.

American's Confused By Fair Wage Practices of Civilized Countries

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    [–] 85 points 3 months ago* (3 children)

    Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been bad tippers.

    Should read:

    Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been making staff aware that I and other businesses are bad employers.

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    [–] 83 points 3 months ago* (4 children)

    Well if you travel to the US for the World Cup you're either ignorant as fuck or you like the direction they're going and want to sponsor it.

    You chose to go. Stay and suffer or leave and get better.

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    [–] 68 points 3 months ago

    We don’t pay our workers, lol. That’s on you!

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  • [–] 63 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    It is completely out of control. I have been asked to tip at self operated vending machines. WTF?

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    [+] 43 points 3 months ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)
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    [–] 36 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (8 children)

    The price on the menu isn’t anywhere near the bill the expect you to pay at the end.

    Bill = menu-price + taxes + 20% tip

    (where 20% is just a rough average)

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  • [–] 30 points 3 months ago (7 children)

    These days I've seen people trying to push 30% to 40% as the minimum tip. Either that or they sneak it in with service charges or gratuity fees with a suggestion of a 25% tip on top.

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  • [–] 17 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    These days I've seen people trying to push 30% to 40% as the minimum tip.

    I’ve seen that, too, and it’s INCREDIBLY sleazy.

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  • [–] 35 points 3 months ago (14 children)

    Don't worry American citizens are also confused by the expensive tipping culture in the US. I still maintain 15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below. Giving above 15% is just subsidizing the pay the employer should be giving. It's a symptom of the fact that wages have stagnated for over 50 years. The pay that once supported someone and even a child is now far below the poverty line for even an individual. So instead of increasing pay to match what it once was many businesses have turned to aggressive tipping over just increasing the prices of their service / products.

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  • [–] 12 points 3 months ago (12 children)

    Talking about restaurant dining only... My baseline is 20%. Higher for breakfast and/or a great job. Shave some off for truly bad experiences.

    I 100% agree that servers should be paid a full living wage before tips. But the truth is, they survive entirely on their tips. Not tipping over 15% isn't sending a message to the employer or the industry. The only person that is impacting is your server who probably doesn't even get to keep 100% of what you leave and makes an hourly rate that's probably 50% or lower of the minimum wage.

    My hometown has a lot of restaurants and a few years back had a measure on the ballot to ensure that servers were actually paid the full hourly minimum wage by their employer. Somehow, the servers were convinced that it would be a bad thing and were against it. The measure failed.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

    I have to put my money where my mouth is. Generally speaking i have decreased eating out and generally avoid dining in locations where tipping is customary. I absolutely avoid like the plague locations that automatically suggest the minimum tip should be 20%+. That said even the completely automated car wash down the way asks if I want to tip now so I have doubts that tips go to that individual worker or to the workers at all in every circumstance.

    If everyone behaved the same then this culture of businesses offloading their employees income directly onto individuals would end very quickly. Tipping wasn't always like this, the tip used to just be a little extra people gave sometimes and now it's been weaponized by unscrupulous business owners.

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    [–] 33 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    It's been known for some time that many of those from outside the US are unfamiliar with our tipping culture. I was a waiter in a nice restaurant in '96 when the Olympics were in Atlanta. We had lots of large parties that we added a 20% gratuity to, and clearly indicated on the check and no one complained. But normally the only place you encountered tipping then was in a sit-down restaurant with waiters. Now there's a thousand and one places where you're encouraged to tip. Even places where it's only counter service and you're supposed to put money in a tip jar when you pay the cashier. It's all over the place and it's completely ridiculous and out of hand. Americans hate it. It's no wonder our guests are confused and pissed off.

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago

    There are a few restaurants I have been to in the US that actually pay living wages and say tipping is optional. When the service is really good and you insist you want to tip they are generally over the moon.

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    [–] 32 points 3 months ago

    Welcome to the wage slave states of America! Hopefully you get out before you find out how much I.C.E. costs here. Ha!

    Seriously don’t come here if you value your safety or your possessions.

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  • [–] 30 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    My favorite thing I saw recently in relation to tipping - was this sign at a restaurant about what the minimum wage was and encouraging tipping.

    I'm assuming that sign was put up or at least tacitly endorsed by the management.

    It's almost as if they don't have any agency over what they pay their own workers and they are then shaming customers into making up the difference? WTF?

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    [–] 26 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Outlaw tipping? Make it socially embarrassing and shameful to accept a tip? Make tipping in America like tipping in Japan?

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  • [–] 26 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    Tipping culture is getting crazy.

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  • [–] 14 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    It’s gotten out of hand. I ordered winter boots via an online shoe store and the check-out prompt asked if I would like to tip. There’s a tip prompt when I buy a container of carrot sticks at the roadside convenience store.

    I would love to do away with the awkward conversations about what I’m doing next while using the point of sale terminal at restaurants. The ritual of annoying small talk in the hope that I select 20% for a tip is tiresome.

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  • [–] 23 points 3 months ago (14 children)

    Just remember, tipping is optional. Don’t feel like you need to be guilted into doing it.

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    [–] 21 points 3 months ago (8 children)

    This shit is being pushed so much that I'm starting to think it's just more culture wars shit to keep sowing division between people

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    [–] 17 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Im an American and I tip because it's how servers get paid in the US.

    I've also been to other countries where restaurants just, ya know, pay their employees.

    It's not complicated. Just give your employees money in exchange for their labor. Somehow other countries just pay their employees and amazingly they still have restaurants and bars.

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    [–] 17 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Dont visit here. Problem solved.

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  • [–] 17 points 3 months ago

    This is why no one should ever visit the States for holidays. Lots of better countries to go that don't have this bullshit.

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  • [–] 16 points 3 months ago (18 children)

    Fuck this is a difficult one.

    Tipping culture is a throwback to slavery times and is very typical of the predatory nature that exists within employment in the US. The position that customers need to pay a tip because the server needs a liveable wage that isn’t covered by employers and built into law is essentially being held hostage due to an unfair system.

    That said, waitstaff depend on this for a liveable wage and by not paying the tip, you’re denying that worker fair income. It’s not their fault directly, it’s the system they are under.

    Looking from the outside, it comes back to the same thing; the reluctance of Americans to engage in building a decent society by collectively voting to build that, rather than voting or even not voting at all to take care of themselves. Again, it’s another case of ‘you get out what you put in’. A 60% voter turnout reflects the quality of what’s been elected and makes it easy for bad actors to get what they want, especially when their base does turn out.

    To get those things, they need to at least vote and vote for people who will give them the things they want like legislated, decent wages. Sometimes it also means some hardship or compromise. Here, that means wait staff would be giving up the potential of big tips for the benefit of decent wages and perhaps healthcare.

    Personally? Of course I’d tip them; I’m in Rome so I’d do as the Romans do and I’m aware that's their income. I’d also feel like I was held hostage by a shithouse, predatory system brought about by Americans lack of care for their own people though.

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    [–] 10 points 3 months ago (13 children)

    A very simple solution is for restaurants to offer a second all-inclusive version of the menu with taxes and suggested tipping included in the prices. Can't cost more than a half hour of work and the price of ten printed pieces of paper.

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    [–] 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    There should never be an incentive for someone to work hard. The incentive is the paycheck. If they give bad service you fire them, every other scenario should be they are paid fairly and the customer leaves happy because they got good service.

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