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[–] Angryhumanoid@fedinsfw.app 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

US. If given the choice I'd have to say on board the USS Enterprise NCC-1701 D, specifically.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Who wouldn't want to live on the Big D.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Spain and ... Spain.

I've been around enough countries to know that nowhere is perfect, but living in the scruffy bit of the EU that has sexy dancing and short shorts is the right place for me

[–] HairyTeeth@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 week ago

Not telling, but I would choose not to live in any country.

I wish to live in the depths of a nameless, unpopulated ocean of body temperature gel which both nurtures and protects me as I float through it in a perpetual sleep.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

US

Ideally I'd really like to live in an alternate history version of the US where we got our shit together at some point. I overall really like this country, there's a lot of cool things and places here, and while a lot of the bad stereotypes about us are based in truth, I do find my countrymen to be overall friendly (it should maybe be noted that I'm a cis straight white guy)

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'd like to live in a country that isn't so obsessed with class and money. Where people only treat you well if they think you are rich.

I am working-class coded guy, and where I live it means people hate you and openly talk about how people like me are all shitty and awful and should be 'fixed'. But when I leave the city people are way nicer to me, because they are working-class and don't think the way I dress is 'offensive'.

And of course, if I mention I went to harvard they go from thinking I'm scum of the earth to wanting to suck my dick... and the country people go from thinking i'm normal to thinking i'm a pretentious rich douchebag...

funny how this place works.

How about an alternate universe where Lincoln wasn't shot and was actually able to follow through on Reconstruction? Hell, I'd take the alternate universe where 2000 wasn't stolen from Gore and we actually took climate change seriously.

[–] Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Estonia, still would live here if I'd have a choice.

I'm already used to living here, built my life up here and there isn't a serious enough reason to leave, for now.

[–] khannie@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Visited Talinn earlier this year and honestly I would happily live there.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

Bestonia amiright

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 11 points 1 week ago

Lithuania. And honestly probably still lithuania ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Somewhere in the nordics would also be nice

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Canada. I would like to live in the Netherlands mainly because the infrastructure there is amazing. I like to BMW (Bike, Metro, Walk) anywhere I go and in Canada, most of the world actually, that's not always an option and is sometimes incredibly dangerous.

Also, AFAIK, the Netherlands is the only country in the world to have truly car-free neighbourhoods. *Which is amazing because it seems no matter where I go in Canada there's always one or several jackasses that decided the only way to get themselves to work in the morning is to burn gasoline in the loudest way possible.

Also from Canada. I feel like we're US-lite and moving in that direction every day. If I could find the means to do so I'd probably move somewhere in Europe too. The Netherlands sound pretty dope, I like me some stroopwafel.

Sometimes I see people rolling coal in their lifted pavement princesses, with political stickers like the Blue Lives Matter flag. It makes me wonder what the fuck is wrong with my neighbours.

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[–] froh42@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Germany. I like it here, still anywhere in the EU is nice.

[–] MastKalandar@feddit.online 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I live in India, and i wouldn't choose any other country. Thanks for this question !!

[–] mysticpickle@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The food there has got to be amazing and cheap :o

[–] MastKalandar@feddit.online 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Amazing 😊😊 Don't call it cheap !!!

[–] remon@ani.social 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I mean India is literally the 3rd cheapest country on the Big Mac Index.

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[–] khannie@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Ireland. I'd happily live in more or less any European country. Ireland is pretty great though IMO, especially for raising kids.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 week ago

Australia, would prefer to be in the EU, France

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 8 points 1 week ago

nice try feds

[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

US, if my avatar didn't already make that clear. My short list is Canada, Norway, Germany, France, New Zealand, Chile, in no particular order. Basically, places with snowy mountains and ski resorts.

It's hard to pick just one place, though. There are so many beautiful and interesting spots in the world.

[–] kurmudgeon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

U.S., I'd gladly move to Canada or the U.K. tomorrow if I could.

[–] redsand@infosec.pub 11 points 1 week ago

UK is in the same boat headed to the same destination. They may even get there faster since their panopticon is more built out.

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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

I live in Canada.

It's fine, I guess. But my biggest regret is that I didn't register my dual citizenship (child of portuguese citizens) so that I could explore the E.U. and settle down somewhere in Europe. Now, I'm 50, with too many bills to pay.

Grab opportunities when you're young, kids. If you don't, then before you realize it, you'll be to stuck in the bullshit mundanity of daily life to do it later.

[–] Boingboing_r@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Sweden. Specifically, Gotland. Started in England. Ended up here eventually. Wouldnt change it for anything. Love it here.

[–] Bronzie@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Norway.

Would stay in northern Europe, central Europe at the most. Need my four seasons and I can't stand weather above 25 degrees, so northern UK would work too I guess.

Wish I could deal with the heat better as there are so many fantastic places further south.

[–] djmikeale@feddit.dk 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Denmark, and Denmark. If I had to leave, then I'd prefer Taiwan or Netherlands

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

USA -> Denmark

Janteloven, disdain for hierarchy, introverted culture, respect for rules, bicycles. What's not to love?

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[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nz, and probably somewhere warmer.

[–] bigfish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago

Good news....

[–] remon@ani.social 4 points 1 week ago

Switzerland and Switzerland. Doesn't get much better.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Germany.

If I had to leave (not that unrealistic, considering predictions for the next federal election), it would probably be New Zealand. Seems to be one of the few English-speaking countries that hasn't gone crazy yet and cold enough that I might survive climate change for a few years longer than here.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

They have the same problems as every other developed country, just at a smaller scale. It only has 5 million people.

But you will still struggle with the cost of house, healthcare, and education, and a stagnant economy. Their growth rate is 1.5%.

New Zeland is wonderful is you are rich, but shitty if you aren't... just like every country.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

Scotland and Scotland. I love it here. Even though it's raining as I write - don't have to worry about watering the garden.

[–] Rivermoonwolf@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I live in USA. If I could, I'd live in Canada

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

Somewhere cold, with trains, and good social welfare programs. Seems like a Scandanavian country would work for me.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago

This is kinda tough nowadays as while there is a clear place you would want to avoid there is no clear place to go. I mean maybe some nordic countries. Globally things are crazy. Now that being said im a city boy and really like toronto mainly because of being able to bring you pet on the metro. I live in the us and honestly one thing that makes it difficult to go someplace else is we are dragging so many places down with us.

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 3 points 1 week ago

I live in the US. I can't think of a country without problems but if I had to pick it would probably be Finland, Spain, Germany, or Ireland. However, as Mark Burgess says, "A Person Isn't Safe Anywhere These Days".

[–] karasu_sue@pf.korako.me 3 points 1 week ago
[–] Abyssian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

The US.

Denmark.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

NZ and still NZ nothing against other countries but I just don't like the way people are compared to how they are here. Its not about niceness people overseas are much nicer. Comforts of home I guess. I'd maybe move from Auckland to Dunedin again or to smaller 100k town in the north island.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Some friends have just moved to Carterton. It has a nice vibe for a smaller town. Plus, wine country.

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I lived in three countries and they were mostly the same.

I'm happy where I live in the USA. I just wish my fellow citizens were not choosing mental illness, but I have have no say over that and those same social forces are prevalent in most other countries with social media.

I'm also kind of sick of listing to them whine about how poor they are when they are so rich, but what they really are is incredibly jealous and bitter that someone else has more money than they do.

[–] stumu415@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

I now live in China after a few years in the US, Australia and Thailand. By far the best place to live. China is truly an amazing place. The people, the country, the food, the infrastructure, the technology, the quality of life overall: social security, health care.

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