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[–] Lizardking13@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Marijuana, a nice light beer, some carne asada tacos on nice flour tortillas. As for the stereo, I'm not sure. That would largely depend on my mood that particular day. I suppose Pink Floyd would be the way to go though. Wish you were here. Maybe? Dark side of the Moon is always a good place to go too.

[–] blarth@thelemmy.club 2 points 4 days ago

Damn that sounds like a really relaxing evening.

[–] RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

Weed, Takis, and something funny to watch

[–] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

KEXP radio, lemongrass kombucha and grilled coalho cheese (kind of like cheese curds... but different, it's a Brazilian thing).

The radio I found out about it today, despite playing a plethora of different styles, I'm quite impressed how the curation is of excellent quality.

[–] Quazatron@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Nice choice.

I sometimes listen to KEXP, I discovered it along with a lot of other interesting radios using the Garden Radio app.

My favorite is a NZ radio called Brian FM.

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[–] compostgoblin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A dark and stormy, a joint, and an Aesop Rock record on.

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That sounds like a 10/10 experience.

It does make for a pleasant and relaxing evening!

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Japanese Ume liquor.

Music is much more difficult. probably some 90's hardcore like Refused.

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[–] knight_alva@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It’s been a long time since I have actually been able to do this but let me lay out a vibe for you:

I work 2nd shift which ends at 10:30 pm and I used to live in a really rough neighborhood. The kind of place where people mind their own business as a matter of safety. The kind of place where landlords don’t do inspections so everyone has a grill on their patio even though it’s against the lease.

So I would go out every single night at 11:30-midnight, light up the charcoal grill, poor myself a cocktail and spend the next hour or two cooking for myself in the quiet empty dark.

So to actually answer the question:

  • the food would change often but always grilled meats and vegetables. A hamburger and an ear of corn, skewered and marinated meats and vegetables with baked beans, everything you would think to pair with a steak, I even grilled cuts of fish on a salt brick a few times.

  • the drink would be something seasonal. In the fall I would mix burnt sugar whiskey with hot apple cider. That was my favorite.

  • what I listened to was always some audio horror fiction. I love music but there was just something about the fire, the moon, and the colony of feral cats that chilled with me for table scraps, that demanded I listen to ghost stories.

[–] Cthuwu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

Damn this whole routine and ambiance is awesome. Add a couple joints and chef's kiss

[–] Supervisor194@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Methamphetamine and cocaine in order to get nice and focused. Diet coke to keep a clean palate and provide a refresher as needed, but when the focus dies down, more meth and coke until I feel like my head is going to literally explode. While this is going on, I'm listening to Babymetal, Electric Callboy and any other party metal that gets my juices really flowing. I am relaxing, but I might clean the house also, sometimes Jesus just calls me. Eventually, it feels like I'm going to actually physically die so I decide the up cycle is over and I need to come nice and down. I take two hits of molly (which will be just fabulous in 20 minutes or so) but in the meantime, I need to take the edge off immediately, so I shoot two (fat) shots of Woodford Reserve Bourbon (typically Distiller's Select, but I'll slum on the basic stuff any day). This is the part where Pink Floyd is queued up. Typically Dark Side of the Moon, but also A Momentary Lapse of Reason, because the tears of Roger Waters fans serve to sustain me in these moments. I might also queue up some Dream Academy just to drive my love of David Gilmour home. The Molly kicks in, and I'll almost always decide it's time for a fruit and cheese board, grapes and brie, mixed nuts, apple slices and a really dry Manchego. Two more shots of Woodford and we're just starting to get comfortable. Heroin is hard(er) to come by - but if I have it, it's time to shoot it up. 10mg in .5ml suspension will be more than enough to complement the Woodford. If not, Fentanyl it is: I spin the wheel of fortune on the Mexican Percocet. Holy shit, I'm really feeling the groove now. This is where my love of 80s pop ballads kicks in. Stalwart standards like Duran Duran, Thompson Twins and Howard Jones pastiched with glam favorites like Poison, Motley Crue and Ozzy Osborne (God rest his soul). At this point I'm beginning to lose my ability to do remain conscious, and a nice glass of Merlot is absolutely necessary. The night must end with Enigma - anything off of Cross of Changes will do. If I remember anything in the morning, then I didn't do it right and I need to start over.

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 4 points 1 week ago

This reads like American Psycho

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[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Bong in one hand, weed vape in the other, a can of Pepsi on the coffee table, and Suicidal Tendencies on my stereo. ST doesn't make the most out of my two subwoofers but they compliment the Pepsi quite a lot.

[–] stinerman@midwest.social 7 points 1 week ago

Tall boy of Honey Brown and Pure Comedy by Father John Misty.

[–] miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

A craft lager, smoked gouda, tomato, lettuce with some mayo on homemade white bread, I'll start with Arvo Pärt's Spiegel im Spiegel, then a couple random Leonard Cohen, and then finish with a few tracks from Zeppelin's Physical Graffiti.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I've never smoked gouda, that shit sounds CRAZY tho.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Spiegel im Spiegel is amazing, I love that song.

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[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago

A joint and a documentary. Probably history, nature, or mythology

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A pepperoni pizza and ice tea since I don't drink. And on the stereo I'd have lofi playing while I mellow out

[–] thisisbutaname@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Most likely I'd be drinking some Talisker Port Ruighe whiskey while listening from The Division Bell by Pink Floyd

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[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Drink: Chateau St. Michelle Riesling (with ice).

Music: Jazz... tonight in honor of Chuck Mangione.

[–] krowbear@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Beer and a charcuterie board and listening to either John Denver or the Stuff You Should Know podcast.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Just one or all of the above?

I can't choose between a snack, a drink, or a blunt. I would usually have all 3. Then pop my tail and collar on and listen to Pet Play by Puppygirl for 8 hours straight.

[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 3 points 1 week ago

Any or all, whatever makes you happiest! I can't choose either, that's why I listed all three lol

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dark beer and chana masala, and the stereo is playing either deathmetal or hyperpop, since I'm alone. Gotta play the music my wife hates while I have the chance.

[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Chana is so good, nice call! And with a beer, chefs kiss. I totally agree on the death metal, that's what I usually play when my husband's out so he doesn't have to tolerate it.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago

I also make (and sometimes eat) too many pancakes, so we have that in common as well.

Last night I made too much chana! The recipe said "feeds four" so I doubled it. Good thing it turn out perfect because even after feeding the whole fam we still had half a gallon leftover.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 1 week ago

I don't know if I have a favorite consumable. Let's see, if a drink, it could be tonic water or some homemade lemonade with tonic, or it could be bubble tea, or it could be fireball or botrytis if I'm feeling like something alcoholic.

Foods might be chocolate, ice cream, chips, cake, prosciutto, olives, blue cheese and crackers

Drugs would be mushrooms but I wouldn't consider that a relaxation companion.

I don't think I put anything on my stereo if I want to relax. Like if I did, I wouldn't have the food or drinks. I get easily overwhelmed like that. Scrap the food and drink and put carbon based lifeforms

[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

Black Butte Porter and Fleshgod Apocalypse's album Labyrinth

[–] some_kind_of_guy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'd puff a few hits of the oil vape out on the porch and stick a fat prilla of swedish snus under my lip. By my side a cup of herbal chai tea or seltzer, maybe a nice beer or just still water. Throw on a record - I've got The Beatles, Bowie, Jimi Hendrix, pink Floyd, Radiohead, spoon, dr dog, the shins and a lot more!

OR turn on my ham radio for some scan and chill on the uhf/vhf repeaters where the other weirdos of my flavor chat about nerd stuff and life, trade gossip and just generally hang out at night.

[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Big ol' fat hand cannon of a joint, listening to roots reggae.

[–] Drekaridill@feddit.is 4 points 1 week ago

I've never heard anyone use the term "consumable item" outside of games.

[–] bremen15@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

some chocolate, and meditation music.

[–] skyIine@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

I would be drinking some whipped coffee (decaf) while listening to some jungle/dnb

[–] Waffle@infosec.pub 3 points 1 week ago

I honestly enjoy a tall crisp glass of water with my relatively high end audio setup. I just pulled the trigger on some major upgrades (bigger subs, better amp, better dac). Typically listening to a broad variety (classical to norteño to thrash metal to anything sonically interesting).

Recently it's been tracks that I know really well to evaluate the setup. Not a huge Billie eillish fan but she can push bass in Xanny or Bad guy. Same with Lorde on royals. Deacon blues and Peg. Some Bubbles because all audiophiles really want to listen to is ping pong balls being dropped in the room around you. I want to pinpoint that balls location within 3 inches.

From there I typically relax enough to listen to something I actually want to bump like Angelina Aguilar or Overmono. Maybe some deafhaven.

I do like a good ipa but have been sensitive to hangovers. If anything there's a preference for a good ol left hand ciggie but that was more common when I lived in Seattle.

[–] Bo7a@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Some htfse dabs, a bottle of home-bubbled water with a shot of lemon, and my viagra boys playlist turned up to 11.

I sing and dance to 'relax', lol, so perhaps romantic salsa/disco/acid jazz and a jay? 😁

[–] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Most recently...

Sit down with a glass of unsweetened cold brew tea, ripping my Yocan Orbit after inserting a nice dab of a gassy live rosin, all while vibing to Akira The Don's That Golden Sound album. Chill af.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Keystone beer! I don't listen to music often, but I've got a wicked Heart/Fleetwood Mac/Stevie Nicks playlist.

[–] cabron_offsets@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Some kind of interesting seltzer, some excellent crumbly cheddar, nice summer fruit like blackberries and peaches. Listening to something intriguing and instrumental. Maybe Matthew Shipp, maybe Tyshawn Sorey, Gonzalo Rubalcaba, John Zorn, others.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

Makers Mark and Diet Coke, on the TV is some PLL, on the sound system is the Pandora Kings of Leon station.

On the iPad is Lemmy

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I'm weird, I sit down and unwind to a bunch of data management. :( I don't really eat or drink recreationally, it's just fuel for me at this point, and I really only listen to music to fill space when driving.

[–] m4xie@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Hot bath, cold non-alcoholic beer, and my water resistant eReader.

[–] dipcart@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Fuckton of shrooms and must be a cop by the husbands

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Cheap beer, whatever beer is cheaper than water.

Which raises the question, why is beer cheaper than water?

The stereo is usually just running in my head, I've spent many months sorting through over 26,000 archived MP3s and basically memorized all the music I like.

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[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago

Some pot and Raisin Bran for the munchies. My poo sinks so hard lately!

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