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[–] 79 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Panic also works if anger isn’t available.

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  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    Okay but could we tone down the panic back to a more manageable level, like 9/10, instead of usual 28/10?

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  • [–] 63 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Lots of caffeine to bring you up during the day and alcohol to slow the racing thoughts at night. It's no way to live.

    Every once in a while I still encounter parents who are hesitant to get their ADHD kid on meds. I try to explain to them that it's not really about performance in school even if that's where it was first noticed.

    It's about keeping them from killing themselves or engaging in incredibly self destructive behavior.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I got to experience that a couple of days ago. I should probably get diagnosed...

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    I find doing CrossFit multiple times a week helps at night. Turns out if you are sufficiently physically exhausted the thoughts tend to slow down. But if they don't that's fine because you are liable to pass out as soon as you stop moving.

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  • [–] 44 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (16 children)

    Wait, the anger is a thing related to adhd?

    I always felt like somewhat of a nutcase for getting pissed off at stuff not working/going my way (shout at the pc until you figure out how to get the driver working again).

    Jogging/biking: get pissed, the burning anger gets you through.

    In an odd way anger manages to focus me but it’s just not a healthy way to live :/

    Edit/Disclaimer: I never said I shout at people.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    Anger is a natural result of discovering that your natural abilities are routinely exploited and taken for granted but your needs that are a direct result of those same abilities will not be met.

    My emotions are very well regulated, thank you. It is normal to feel anger when gaslit into thinking your normal human variation is a disorder.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    Yeah. Do some therapy and you will find out lots of things you "just do" are adaptations to compensate for ADHD. Shifting to healthier ways of doing things can be tough. It's hard to let go of habits that have "worked so far".

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    [–] 30 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Just gonna keep ignoring these increasingly relevant memes and move on, fuck you very much.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Real question: what kind of content do you expect from this community?

    At its core, ADHD is just a vague, flexible list of symptom checkboxes that are part of the neurodivergent spectrum. Tick enough of the boxes, and you are considered ADHD. Tick enough of some other boxes, and you are considered autistic. Tick enough ADHD and autism boxes, and you're AuDHD.

    The vast majority of people will tick at least one box from the neurodivergent list, this is what people mistakenly refer to as "everyone is a little bit autistic", and is why these memes can apply to a lot of people, or not apply to you at all as someone with an ADHD diagnosis.

    Anyway, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Me, a Neurodivergent: i don't need any of this pesky chemical stimulant stuff to get through life.

    Also me: Addicted to both caffeine and sugar.

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    [–] 21 points 1 year ago

    For overachievers there's also the fear of being seen as a fraud >.<

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago

    If you microdose a breakdown by crying in a closet afterwards you get extra cooldown reduction.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Caffeine, anger, and anxiety…

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    You forgot spite. Spite is more effective than anger because it's less distracting and lasts longer.

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Haven't any of y'all tried being incompetent?

    I try to avoid caffeine, so I just am unhelpful instead.

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    [–] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Replace caffeine with weed and yes.

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    [–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    i thought i could do this since i stopped taking Ritalin around 10/11. huge mistake, massive lol. i am now in a PHP for psychiatric intervention. i have fucked up oh boy.

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    [–] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Why caffeine? I have an ADHD assessment and for the first appointment that was one of the questions, if I drank caffeine and how much if so.

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    [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Yeah it sucks when ADHD meds are illegal in my country. Caffeine isn’t as effective as it used to be

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Why is Mac wearing a hardhat?

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  • I had a lovely conversation with another unmedicated parent. It's the first time in a while that the mask came off a bit in that circle. It was nice.

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  • That's about the size of it.

    You don't know the power of the dark side

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Caffeine does pretty much nothing for me

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