[–] 2 points 11 hours ago (1 child)

I was 18 at the time and received a PM on a online forum from her because my username indicated we were born the same year.

The second one I found from a platform similar to Omegle.

Third I PM'd on Instagram.

That's almost two decades of my life. Now I'm single again. If there is to be a fourth one, I expect them to be discovered from an equally odd place - likely somewhere online.

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  • [–] 1 point 15 hours ago

    That is always the case when comparing one's complex internal life to the perceived external lives of others. It's never an apples to apples comparison. However social media was just one example. This applies to other forms of signaling as well: designer clothes, latest tech, following trends.. Basically almost anything people do that they wouldn't do if there were no one to see it.

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  • [–] 1 point 15 hours ago

    Sure, but the starting point is that I already don't know something and need to look it up one way or another. Yes, the AI answer might be wrong but the guy on the YouTube video or online forum could equally be wrong. That is not something unique to AI.

    I'm also obviously not just blindly trusting what it says. When it recommends me a product for example I don't just go buy it without a question. The AI is just pointing me to the hopefully right direction for me to figure it out but the ultimate decision still remains mine.

    A good recent example:
    "I need to paint plywood that gets wet regularly, should I use paint A or paint B?"
    "Neither, you should use paint C"
    *Looks up paint C*
    "Yes, I definitely should use paint C"

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  • [–] 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (3 children)

    It's a very quick number game called "By a Whisker"

    Happy to show how it's played to anyone whose interested. Just pick any number.

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  • [–] 5 points 17 hours ago

    I can somewhat relate with that. Eating meat is one of the few behaviours that I still do despite being unable to morally defend it. It's not even that I'm trying not to think about it or have to somehow deceive myself believing that it's good. I know exactly what I'm doing. The convenience of it simply outweighs the moral guilt.

    What I think would possibly make me feel different about it is someone handing me a gun and telling me to shoot a cow. If it turns out that I can't do it, then that really puts into question the outsourcing of the messy part of it in the first place.

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  • [–] 1 point 17 hours ago (2 children)

    Pommac comes pretty close as well but it's not exactly cheap and it's probably hard to find outside of the nordic countries. It's like "adult soda" - in graduation parties, weddings and such it's often served as the non-alcohol substitute for sparkling wine.

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    Did my best to try and make sure it actually lasts instead of just looking good on the surface for the first few years.

    • The bottom of the plywood has an angled drip edge and all edges have been pre-painted twice before hanging.
    • Backside of the walls are vented.
    • The bottom edge is off the ground.
    • Only stainless hardware used.
    • Extra durable paint meant for wetrooms
    • Seams, corners and all pass-throughs have been caulked
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