[–] 6 points 17 hours ago (1 child)

I believe you even though that's kind of sad. I'm not sure which of "they thought this dead animal picture was good" or "they don't have friends to take a better picture" or "it didn't even occur to them to ask a friend to take a picture" are worse.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    This is refreshing. I'm so tired of right wing people being like "the government can't do anything right and I'm going to prove it by sabotaging and starving the government".

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    I recently read "People's History of the United States" and it paints a much grimmer picture of the early US. It didn't take long for the alien and sedition acts to be written, despite the grand language about freedom. There's also many, many, years of labor asking for more than dirt and being violently suppressed.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 day ago

    Friend. The argument isn't "you should judge something by its reputation". The argument is people do that. It is a heuristic or whatever you call that kind of shortcuts.

    It is impossible to assess the validity of every source and detail. We rely on trust and reputation and other signals. It's faster, cheaper, and good enough for most things. When your friend you and trust says "I've got some free candy in the van" you probably respond differently than when a blood soaked stranger does.

    I'm not saying we should rely on this entirely. I'm simply saying that's a fact of life. People save effort by not critically evaluating everything from first principles when they can just go "my friend recommended it, this Taco place is probably good". It could be a horrible taco place! But it's faster to go by something like in-group recommendations than a full research project.

    I feel like I'm repeating myself into the void. Surely you don't all launch extensive research projects for every piece of information and decision that you come across.

    This whole damned thread started from someone saying

    Criticism is not evaluated by where it comes from, but by whether it’s true or false.

    And that's just not how humans act all of the time! Sometimes, often, they don't think through everything. They don't research. They look at the source and go "nah".

    You can argue that's bad, and sure it often is. But that doesn't change the fact that that's how people behave.

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    As the title says, how often do you admit you're wrong? Is it different when it's a factual dispute versus something more subjective?

    I make an effort to concede early if I'm in error. I think because my mother almost never admits fault. She'll fall back to "that's not what I meant" or similar deflections first, and that's really annoying.

    The last big factual error I made was about the distance of walking, and that's where I learned about Taxicab Geometry ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taxicab_geometry ).

    I think some people believe admitting fault is a sign of weakness, but I find it's more of a power move. It takes strength to do it, and people can tell when you're sweating and desperate. Usually it leads to resolving the conflict faster and cheaper, too.

    (I expect some people will feel the urge to reply they're never wrong. I'll file that under never admits fault.)

     

    This is the bad place.

    It's fucking toilet paper. I don't need a summary.

    Not only are they wasting time, energy, and screen space with this slop, it seems to have come with a bug preventing me from adding anything to my cart. I just get 403s when trying.

    I can only assume management demanded engineering maximize their AI usage at the expense of boring things like testing and stability.

    I hate this.

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