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[–] foggy@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

I'm getting sick of the invasive questions

"Gender?

Sex at birth?

Are you trans?

Are you gay? Bi?

Ever been depressed?

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Ever been arrested?

Ever been in the military?

Well what about your spouse?

Ever work for the government?

That degree you mentioned, we can't ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?"

NONE OF THIS HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE POSITION.

This is 100% occuring in the USA. Where I live and work.

[–] HKPiax@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Most of these questions are illegal in my country, thank fuck

[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

thank fuck

No, thank the government and the people who voted.

[–] superkret@feddit.org 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No, thank the workers who literally died fighting for worker rights, which forced the government's hands in order to keep the peace.

[–] Brainsploosh@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Died and often killed, don't forget that demonstrations are the compromise for a civil discourse. When not being treated civilly, it quickly becomes a mob and the lynching begins.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

OP is full of shit. See my response.

https://old.lemmy.world/comment/15656902

Those questions are begging for discrimination lawsuits. Despite being heavily involved in onboarding at two companies, I'm not sure which of those are legal to ask because no one asks.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world -2 points 2 months ago

Yes, they still ask them.

You're an idiot.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

If you're in the USA, these questions are legal to ask.

Some are illegal (when did you graduate), but is asked very often anyways. Often times marked as required on Workday Job applications.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world -2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

LOL my god, people in this thread just making shit up. It is absolutely legal in the US to ask for a graduation/attendance date on an app.

[–] lovely_reader@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It may technically be legal to ask about postsecondary graduation, but asking for a high school graduation year is generally considered illegal, since that'll pretty much get you within a few years of the applicant's age. (I'm honestly unsure whether that's relevant though, since the first comment said "degree," which isn't what we call a high school diploma where I'm from.)

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am floored by the amount of blind "nuh uh that is not true you're lying."

Guys.

I'm not fucking lying.

Ass clowns.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

Hell, any of this info is a quick search away.

"Nuh uh!"

Sigh, you feel me.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Almost none of that is asked on an application except the degree date. All of the above would be a fucking nightmare for HR. You really think employers are dumb enough to ask questions that could lead to discrimination lawsuits?!

After you are hired, the forms ask:

  • Gender and race (you forgot race!): Employers need this for mandatory Equal Employment Opportunity (EEO) reporting.
  • Alcohol and drugs: Only for a very few positions, government, security and the like. Perhaps you were filling out a Form 4473 to buy a gun and got confused?
  • Arrested and convicted of a crime: Imagine an employee getting raped and the employer having to say, "We had no idea!" I've been arrested shitloads of times, no convictions, no problem. Also, I'm betting you can say "no" for misdemeanor convictions, no one gives a shit unless the job requires a security clearance. And if you think standard hiring invades your privacy, oh boy.
  • Military: Various laws to protect vets require the employer to know this for benefits, accommodations, etc., same for spouse. Also an EEO thing.
  • Government work: Never seen this, but I imagine it's like any employer, "Ever worked for us before?"

You made some of that up out of thin air and didn't understand the rest. And here ya got 61 upvotes from people taking all that at face value. Be better.

SOURCE: Worked IT for an employment firm with 200 employers. Designed and posted hiring forms, hiring data and onboarding at two places. Learned more about hiring than I ever wanted to know.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Right out of college, I went through an eight hour long hiring process complete with a proctored exam, three different interviews, a psychological screening, and a meeting with the CEO. All for an entry level position that paid $25k. By the end of the day, I was the only candidate left to be considered and they didn't give me an offer.

I got a call and a quick phone interview two days later from a small independent IT company that quoted me $30k on the spot. I said I was considering a second position and - over the phone - the guy raises it to $35k. Took the deal. Started a week later.

Two months after that, I got a postcard in the mail saying I was no longer being considered for the first job.

This was in 2006 and its only gotten worse since.

[–] Jesus_666@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Gender?

Present.

Sex at birth?

No, my first time was well over a decade later.

Are you trans?

Transtabular, from your position.

Are you gay? Bi?

I prefer professionalism to gaiety during interviews. This meeting isn't over yet.

Ever been depressed?

Not in the button sense, no.

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Neither physically nor emotionally. No, thank you, not now.

Ever been arrested?

Have you been?

Ever been in the military?

Even if I was, you're not getting veteran's benefits through me.

Well what about your spouse?

Even if they were, you're not getting veteran's benefits through them.

Ever work for the government?

Why, are you paying public service rates?

That degree you mentioned, we can’t ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?

I think it was sometime around when I graduated from college.

[–] veni_vedi_veni@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Bro, your answer is being filtered out by an algorithm, even before it gets the chance to be appreciated by some hr drone.

[–] Jesus_666@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Oh, I assumed this was during an interview already. If a company sent me that shit prior to an interview I'd tell the headhunter to try again with a better company.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Gender?

Sex at birth?

Are you trans?

Are you gay? Bi?

Ever been depressed?

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Ever been arrested?

Ever been in the military?

Well what about your spouse?

Ever work for the government?

That degree you mentioned, we can't ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?

I'm just trying to get an egg loan! There's people in line behind me!

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Where are you that has questions like these?

5 of those questions aren't asked in the US.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I am in the US.

Those questions are 100% asked.

Source: over 1000 job applications this year so far.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That’s like 4 a day, every day including weekends. Where do you live where there are that many jobs available?

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yes that's about right. I do between 20 and 80 per day when I do applications.

The US.

Remote jobs are a thing.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You're lying, plain and simple. Tell me with a straight fucking face you've been asked about sexual preferences or gender at birth.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Tell me with a straight fucking face you’ve been asked about sexual preferences or gender at birth.

Another American here and I can tell you that I've seen both these questions on interview forms. They each came with a "prefer not to specify" response, for all that's worth.