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[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 172 points 1 week ago (2 children)

NYC here.

If someone asked the average New Yorker what a bodega was, the most probable answer is "What are you, stupid?"

Not me, because I would be mugging you.

[–] winkledinkle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago

I talked to a new yorker once but it was actually a man sized rat.

After I uncovered their ruse they scuttled away but not before grabbing a nearby busker and whisked them away to behind a dumpster.

[–] other_cat@piefed.zip 51 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Wow! NYC!

MA TAKE A PICTURE I'M GETTING MUGGED BY THE CITY ITSELF :D

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[–] jtrek@startrek.website 87 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The real magic is I can walk to several open bodegas almost any time of day or night.

[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 137 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] jtrek@startrek.website 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It depends where you live. Most places in the US you can't (safely) walk to anywhere, and many places aren't open 24/7.

[–] brownsugga@lemmy.world 70 points 1 week ago (2 children)

A bodega is a gas station without the gas

[–] GalacticSushi@piefed.blahaj.zone 55 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] brownsugga@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I experienced that first hand. Colleagues going to their cars to drive 200m down the road to park again and then walk 100m back on themselves to a deli.

It’s baffling how something as simple as a corner shop that can be walked to is a novelty yet here in Europe, it’s the norm everywhere.

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[–] BigBananaDealer@lemmy.world 53 points 1 week ago (13 children)

new yorkers think having an american, chinese, indian, italian, and mexican restaurant to choose from makes them unique. im not even kidding i saw a new yorker tweet that those choices can only be found in new york city

But this is just on one block.

Lol, maybe if it was 1980.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 20 points 1 week ago

Lol, the old “American food is the best because we have every kind of cuisine”. Oh sweety, that’s just every city now.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago (23 children)

They also think they have the best of all of the above, they do not. I was there last month the pizza was ass I've had better from just about every other state I've been to, and they have fuck all for good soul food. Ask a New Yorker for some grits, biscuits and gravy, fried spaghetti, porkchop sandwiches, or collards and watch their fucking head spin. Then ask about barbecue, and when they answer, ask what style that barbecue is and the head twists right off because half of them don't know Memphis style from Western NC style if they even knew there were different styles at all.

Then they move anywhere and get pissed off that other places aren't the exact same as NYC, go the fuck back then idiot!

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[–] dominic.borcea@piefed.social 39 points 1 week ago (4 children)

here bodegă means a cheap, low-quality and often run-down bar/pub, I think that's close to its original meaning - wine cellar/warehouse. How did USA go from that to corner shop, I wonder

[–] WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How did USA go from that to corner shop

The used a brimful of asha.

[–] jaaake@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 23 points 1 week ago

Iirc, is from Dominican's immigrants on New York

[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Now I'm not from NY and I agree that it's mostly a corner shop, the only connection to that that I can think of is that usually bodegas will have a kind of deli section where you can buy prepared foods. Usually sandwiches, sometimes things like tacos or rice plates.

I think new yorkers don't get that that's common across corner stores around the US.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 18 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] jeffep@lemmy.world 38 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So after reading through all the valuable comments here it seems like a bodega is a way to say you live in New York while trying to not seem like you're bragging about it but you actually try to brag about it

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[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 35 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's all about the relationship you cultivate with the owners and operators of the bodega.

[–] peteypete420@sh.itjust.works 65 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Soooo, same as any corner store?

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[–] Plum@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 week ago (9 children)

These comments are so weird. I only found out what a bodega was recently, so I've added it to my brain as "corner shop". I didn't even know they were peculiar to a specific area until this post.

So they're corner shops. Everything people comment about them being different still comes under the umbrella of "corner shop". It's weird to see people yapping about how they're different and then giving reasons that... still mean corner shop.

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[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Keep your bodegas. Ain't none of you guys can beat our local gas station/post office//DMV/liquor store/UPS pickup point. We don't even need a special name for it. It's just The Store. Sure it's not within walking distance. But then not even the neighbors are either.

You can fill up your car, get your mail, buy new tabs for that car/boat/UTV/truck or get a fishing/hunting license, buy a 12 pack of beer, send a fax to your parole officer, and buy a gallon of milk with a frozen pizza to either cook there or take it home. It also has 2 tables and 5 chairs to relax at, (no purchase necessary). I know people who do all of that in one visit.

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[–] Etterra@discuss.online 24 points 1 week ago

I'm from Chicago and I've never been to NYC. From what I've heard about bodegas however, the difference seems to be that a bodega requires a cat.

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 23 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Now try asking the Québécois about dépanneurs

[–] moody@lemmings.world 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Nothing special about them. It's just a different name for a regular convenience store.

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[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is just new yorkers being new yorkers - a city full of Emperor's New Clothes.

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Speaking of which, did you know in NYC it’s legal for a woman to be topless anywhere a man can be? That’s why we walk around naked all the time. Sorry carry on.

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[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 week ago (4 children)

What's disappointing is that bodegas are as close to a "third space" as you're likely to get. It's not a place you're meant to hang out, there isn't even seating, and you are supposed to buy something. And yet, there's a hint at some kind of community.

UK, Ireland and Australia have a slight improvement on that with pubs. They're also commercial establishments, but culturally it's more of a community thing. It's also not just about alcohol. You can get a hot meal too. Even if someone isn't going out to hang out with friends down at the pub, it's often perfectly normal to go there and eat alone while reading a book. Even that is a bit of a community activity, because you'll see some of the same faces and exchange greetings or at least waves or nods.

Places with serious winters (and I'm including NYC in that), really should have third spaces that are not for profit and designed for various kinds of hanging out: board games, indoor sports, gaming, cooking. That just doesn't seem to be a common thing in the English speaking world, at least for adults.

[–] SchwertImStein@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago

Til https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place

In sociology, the third place refers to the social surroundings that are separate from the two usual social environments of home ("first place") and workplace ("second place"). Examples of third places include churches, cafes, bars, clubs, libraries, gyms, bookstores, hackerspaces, stoops, parks, and theaters, among others.

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bodegon deez nuts

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 19 points 1 week ago (5 children)

They got beer and chips, and snacks in $1 bags. They also have a sweet Tortie guarding the place. That's the real reason to visit.

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[–] Klear@quokk.au 17 points 1 week ago

OK, but couldn't you wait for 20 more notes to appear before taking the screenshot?

[–] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago
[–] echodot@feddit.uk 16 points 1 week ago

A small shop? What's an incredible concept. Who would have thunk it?

America truly is the land of innovation.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 14 points 1 week ago

One of the main things I miss from the UK is the cornershops - generally run by an Asian family and you can find almost anything a human could possibly want to buy in there with “multipack, not for individual sale” writ on the side.

Australia used to have milk bars, which were basically the same thing, but they’ve all been closed down or gentrified into delis and brunch cafes.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] cadekat@pawb.social 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Get your hands off my furry porn, copper

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