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Ive been thinking of going caffeine and alcohol free for a while. Alcohol wouldnt be an issue but I really love coffee.

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[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 1 points 32 minutes ago

I am a man of substance

[–] Kkk2237pl@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I didnt drink often and much, maybe once per two weeks, and max 3 beers or something. But since I stopped completely, and I drink 0 per year I can feel much better. My diet didnt change, I spend less time outdoors, but I feel better…

[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 26 points 5 hours ago

I have, in fact, been told I am a man of very little substance.

[–] remon@ani.social 36 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I don't think I could make it through the day without oxygen.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 16 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Dihydrogen Monoxide addict too aren't you?

[–] Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

Don't forget about your other acquaintances CaNaCl, it wouldn't be the same without them ;-)

[–] Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io 1 points 4 hours ago

And an assortment of minerals.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 1 points 4 hours ago

CaNaCl sounds like a card game you play with grandma.

[–] pulsewidth@lemmy.world 20 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

Why go caffeine free?

I sadly figure the oil companies will make us all go caffeine free in the medium to long term, so may as well enjoy it now before it becomes a luxury of the wealthy.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Pretty sure there is some caffinated tea leaf that is native to the USA.

Edit: Ilex vomitoria

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 9 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

For one, to see if I can (been drinking coffee since I was maybe 7 or so)

For two, because maybe I'd feel better or sleep better !

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

withdrawals can be rough, but I think it's worth trying

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 5 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

Maybe I'll try only 1 cup of kaf a day to start then do every other..

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 7 hours ago

yes, a gradual taper is a good idea - much better than cold turkey.

Eventually switching to black tea, then green tea, then white tea would also help.

Might also be good to keep a log as a way to ensure you know exactly how many mg of caffeine you're consuming, and to keep yourself honest.

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I’ve been having caffeine for about a decade, around 400mg a day. It has changed my brain, so tapering slowly seems like the only sustainable solution.

If I go cold turkey I’m just too miserable and cognitively incapable. I think my sweet spot is around 5% reductions every 4-7 days.

Just wanted to let you know that maybe your target reductions could be even smaller.

If 5% every couple of days is too slow, I’ve heard people doing up to 15% every couple of days. Of course, the only way for you to know what works for you is testing it.

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 hours ago

I've quit twice to see the effects. Crushing headaches start in 24 hours and can't be relieved with anything but caffein. Yet mere sips of coffee/tea taken daily can stave off withdrawal. With < 2 cups of coffee total, you can wean yourself off completely symptom free.

Day 1 150ml

Day 2 125 ml

Day 3 100 ml amd so on.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 3 points 7 hours ago

I've been using decaf at home for a couple of years now. Then again I wasn't really dependent on caffeine so it wasn't hard for me to switch.

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 3 points 8 hours ago

You should try it - some people report various health benefits. Others report no effect. (and half from both groups are looking at what they care about and ignoring other evidence) Your doctors may have guidance on how it affects you.

I'm only asking for a 2 week trial. Then evaluate if it is worth going longer or not.

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I have yet to evolve beyond my corporeal form, so not me.

[–] tangible@piefed.social 8 points 7 hours ago

nicotine free since 2016, cocaine free since 2019. But I'll keep my coffee.

[–] Gobbel2000@programming.dev 4 points 6 hours ago

I'm living without alcohol and caffeine (except in tea and chocolate) and really never have the feeling of missing anything. Can recommend.

[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 6 points 7 hours ago

I am. I grew up around drug and alcohol addiction. Tried it. Hated it. Decided none of this was for me. Drugs is easy. Everybody in my house usually scampers away like roaches to do drugs. Alcohol is very much a family thing. Can't watch a game without someone screaming shots or drink. I usually end up hiding in my room.

Coffee makes me nauseous and I'm not trying to feel like I need to shit before I got something to do. Plus the crash is way worse than the energy its supposedly supposed to give me.

[–] HuudaHarkiten@piefed.social 4 points 6 hours ago

I quit alcohol 11 years ago. Haven't smoked weed or nicotine since early January. I do drink coffee and will never let it go. Also I haven't completely quit weed, I think. I just haven't been arsed to get any in a while. Might be that I never will but I haven't made a conscious decision to quit it.

[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 11 points 8 hours ago (6 children)

Alcohol, cannabis, and methamphetamine free since '95. Nicotine free since '03. Caffeine free since '15.

Now if I could kick sugar.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Good luck on the angel dust addiction.

[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 3 points 7 hours ago

Thanks. I kicked sugary drinks with the caffeine in '15. But still have a hard time with it in general. I will go months with none, then I get an urge for something and before I know it I am Augustus Gloop.

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Smoked some synthetic THC a few years ago when I hated myself. I still hate myself somewhat but at least I'm mentally present. No more brainfog.

[–] Samskara@sh.itjust.works 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I‘m not drinking alcohol. Once or twice a month I do LSD, 2C-B, magic mushrooms, GHB, ketamine. Psychedelics and ketamine help reset, defragment, and refocus my mind. GHB is for relaxed and passionate sex.

I stopped cannabis two weeks ago and still feel a yearning to use it. It makes me lethargic, worse sleep, mental fog. CBD helps quench the desire to use.

Elvanse (lisdexamphetamine) daily as prescribed. Stopped all other amphetamines two years ago.

Started drinking coffee every other morning recently. It is nice, but I don’t want it to become a habit long term. Stopping caffeine has worked for me in the past without much effort.

No nicotine.

[–] SqueakySpider@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 53 minutes ago

I haven't been able to find some of this in years :( Mushrooms are not my favorite, always end up nauseated

[–] fahfahfahfah@lemmy.billiam.net 2 points 7 hours ago

Man I always find that even a single cup of coffee really fucks me up on el/vyvanse, I had to switch to decaf

[–] proti@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago

I don't take anything (other than supplements, meds), still I could be eating healthier.

[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Determine which habits are good, bad, neutral. Then anything good or neutral, determine good frequency. Then cycle frequency to optimize utility vs. adaptation/addiction/increased requirements. Anything bad, eliminate.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

what do you consider "substance free"?

I drink alcohol and caffeine both less frequently than once a week, but I do consume both occasionally (usually for fun, or socially).

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

I was going to ask if you meant right now, or in general, but if coffee is included, I'm out either way.

[–] BladeFederation@piefed.social 2 points 7 hours ago

I've never done drugs or drank alcohol. I used to get a little too obsessed with hyper fixations when I was younger, so I figured that wouldn't end well. I'd probably be fine now but like...why at this point?

I've been on a soda and coffee kick recently but I routinely cut it out completely and I'm usually the better for it. I'll be heading back to the gym soon after not having time so it'll probably be then. My body feels weird if I'm exercising but eating/drinking garbage Might have headaches for a few days depending on how bad your caffeine or sugar addiction was.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 8 hours ago

Caffeine, no. Everything else, yes.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

Would if I could but I cant

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 2 points 8 hours ago

Nope, have caffeine in the veins right now and had alcohol last night. Have weed gummies once a month or so. I do occasionally go for a month or more without any of them just to confirm I am doing it by choice.

Moderation is the key, and going without for a period of time is definitely a good thing to do.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 7 hours ago

caffeine is really hard and to go further sugar would be even harder. I doubt I will ever be there.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 7 hours ago

Decaf coffee is a thing, yknow. You get to enjoy drinking it without the jitters.

For me I am not and probably cannot ever be substance free. I don't really care to. My life is better with caffeine and THC (it really helps the audhd thing function in modern society). I should probably pare back the amount of caffeine I get daily, but I won't eliminate it.

[–] Chronographs@lemmy.zip 1 points 8 hours ago

I drink caffeine but I’ll stop sometimes if I feel like I spending too much, I mostly just like coffee and tea.

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