Meme 's aside, SSRIs can be a blessing. I'm experiencing it right now.

I think the "joke" is that those side effects would make you very sad as well. Pretty counterproductive to the whole problem itself. 😅

But hey, I'm very glad you made it out of that state, and your girlfriend sounds like a real keeper. 💖 Keep on trucking! 🙏

Yeah there are more important things than cumming and losing weight. A lot of more important things! Hope you're thriving

I have a sigmoidoscopy on the horizon and I saw the doctor's referral and noticed it said something like "no anesthesia needed" - madam who made that decision? 😭

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My wife has been on a variety of meds for anxiety and depression over the last 10ish years, none of which should lead to weight gain. Multiple doctors told her "you're just gaining weight because you can enjoy food again, now the depression is under control". Horse shit. We did calorie counting, she was gaining weight even at 1100-1200 calories per day and daily exercise. Switched meds, and she lost 30 pounds in a matter of a few months. Fucking doctors, man.

I don’t heve experience but would think that’s different from individual to individual

That may be true for SSRIs, but I have bipolar, and I’m on an antipsychotic that also has antidepressant properties. It made me gain hella weight.

I gained like 70lbs then lost it all after getting off of them. Losing that much weight while depressed was a bitch and a half.

The great depresh was such an eye opening comedy special for me.

For some. If it works for you, you're lucky. Especially if it's the first drug you tried.

For others, depression treatment means bouncing around between different drugs and drug classes until landing on something that works, and doesn't make things worse. For some people that's a holy grail that doesn't actually exist, and they won't be helped by any of the "traditional" first-line treatments. (The SSRI, SNRI, tricyclic, etc. drugs).

Some of these take weeks before you even know if it's working or not. If it doesn't work, and you have to stop taking it, you either go cold turkey, risking bizarre withdrawal symptoms and/or worse mental issues, or its a slow taper of weeks to months. Best case scenario you feel dull and blah for a few weeks during that taper. Or you may experience worse symptoms. Either way, it's a huge waste of time and resources, with a high degree of chance you'll just say "fuck it" and make a choice that will make things even worse.

Now imagine repeating that cycle several times over, until you cross whatever arbitrary threshold your local health system deigns is enough suffering to allow them to give you the "treatment resistant" label and open the gates to newer, "non-traditional" treatments with a higher chance of actually working. This magic number of different drugs you have to try can vary based on local laws and your insurance. In my situation, it's at least 7 different drugs, and you have to try one from each major category. (So 1 SSRI, 1 SNRI, etc..) You also must comply with all your provider's instructions. If they want you to taper off, you can't just say "fuck it", you must take all the scheduled doses until that's complete. You must be a good obedient patient until whatever authority applies to you decides you've had enough.

There are a few things out there with much higher success rates, like ketamine therapy, MDMA therapy, psylocybin and electroconvulsive therapy (which sounds really scary, but it's been and continues to be refined and modernized, and currently has a success rate of about 60%, which is considered very good).

Patients in my area have to survive the drugs gauntlet I've described above, plus talk therapy, before they're allowed to take advantage of the things which medicine already knows are just as safe and vastly more effective - it's really fucked. Many don't come out better on the other side of that process, which can take YEARS, and some don't survive. The only exceptions to this are of course wealthy people who can just end-run around most of the rules because they have the ability to pay directly for the good stuff out of pocket.

Speaking of money, these treatments which are known to work more often for a greater percentage of people are often a lot more expensive in the short term - if they're even available where you live. It doesn't have to be that way but, thanks to regulatory capture, there is a boatload of overhead. These therapies all require licensing, certifications, a higher level of expertise and skill, etc., way way above and beyond just writing a script for, e.g., wellbutrin.

Because they all work for quite a while after a session, though, you don't need them as often, and they cost far less in the long run. Sounds good, right? But insurance companies hate things like that. They would much rather you take one or more pills every day for your entire life. They especially like the ones that are difficult to get off of. So they force providers to tinker around with your brain chemistry for a while, with drugs that are just barely effective enough that they continue to be manufactured. They would love for you to give up or die during that phase of treatment, because then they don't ever have to subsidize those expensive therapies which are more of an occasional appointment or even "one and done" treatment model.

Some turn to black market sources of ketamine, MDMA or psychs in a desperate attempt to treat themselves, but, naturally, not everyone coloring outside the lines has the knowledge or werewithal to test their drugs or use the correct dose/dosing schedule or provide themselves the proper mindset and environment like a professional would.

Mental health treatment can be a real wilderness for many.

Sertraline was actual torture for me. I stopped sleeping entirely, had constant chills, pounding headache, mood instability where I would just start sobbing for no reason. Started on week 3 and by the end of the week I was begging my doctor to take me off it.

Sister had similar results. I ended up on different meds.

A possible side effect of setraline, along with other SSRIs, is decreased libido and ejaculation failure.

Took me a few months on sertraline to get back to my horny self and even being able to cum - a frustrating few months indeed - but it helps a ton with the anxiety and eventually I got back to busting nuts so I think it's worth it.

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