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[–] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 1 points 11 minutes ago

Honestly as much as possible I have just checked out of consumerism.

[–] BeerStainedBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 36 minutes ago

Most snacks. I only get them on sale because the servings get smaller and smaller

[–] Ashiette@lemmy.world 1 points 37 minutes ago

RAM sticks. This may sound cheesy but I have always upgraded my PC RAM. I Bought a laptop in jan. 2025 and told myself "okay I could buy these 64 GB RAM but I could also buy X instead, so I'll buy X then in a few months I'm gonna buy some RAM to do Gen AI, it's not like I'm in a hurry". Well, I guess this was a mistake because I can only run a limited set of models on 32 GB RAM and prices have... well... you know.

[–] Balldowern@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago

No more streaming subscriptions. No more chocolates. No more alcohol. No more decorations.

No dining out unless it's an occasion. We meal-prep regularly.

I don't drive anymore. Only public transportation or car-pooling.

Exercising more often so my body remains the same physique (less need for new clothes)

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 5 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

PC upgrades of course, but also I refuse to pay for a coffee out these days. Sometimes I do it if I'm with someone but never alone. It's very expensive.

Also burgers out, I never buy them, but also because they are not very good and the price is ridiculous. Last time I checked, Burger King double whopper menu was 14 dollars in my country. Probably more expensive now.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Sit down places are over 20 where I'm at. I've seen a burger for $27. Fuck that. Ground beef is also pretty expensive but it's not even close. I use my grill and it comes out better anyway.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 1 hour ago

That's truly insane, 20 dollars.... Wtf.

I guess they rely on the truly stupid and lazy to pay those prices.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 3 hours ago

PC upgrades.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Oil change services for my vehicles. Despite doing tons of my own repairs, I hate dealing with the oil. It always gets on the outside of the container and my recycling locations are always full. The service (including oil) used to be about 50% more than the oil I could buy to do myself. It was worth it to me to spend an extra dinner's worth of money ~4 times a year. But now a service costs at least twice as much as the oil alone, even at independent shops. Plus, I now get oil in slight bulk, so the service is 3x what I pay in oil. I treated myself to a nice catch pan and dedicated funnels as a compromise, still costing less than a service on my first DIY in a decade.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I'm planning on doing this myself now.

My last oil change was $116 with a $15 off coupon.

I can buy the oil from Costco for like $30. A good quality oil filter is 20 bucks.

Even if it takes me a full hour to do, which it will not, I'm getting paid $70 for that hour.

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 15 points 4 hours ago

E V E R Y T H I N G

[–] eurodyne@piefed.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Hard drives

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Used to buy the 12 box from a local chocolatier that is absolutely fantastic. The owner was trained in France and Belgium and her creations are as good or better than anything I've eaten.

Six years ago, the price for a 12 piece box was $24. Today it is $36. I used to keep a box around almost constantly. Now it is only for holidays and birthdays.

Personal Computers: As an IT professional, I've always been a miser when it comes to computer hardware. I usually buy something 2 or so generations old and refurbish it myself, then use it for several years till it suffers a catastrophic failure. I'm not a serious gamer, so I don't care if it can run the latest games at trillions of frames per microsecond. Now, even 4 generations back the machines are abhorrently expensive. Costing as much as they did when new, which is ridiculous. The manufacturing burn through due to AI is idiotic. When the investment into AI finally crashes, which I'm shocked hasn't happened yet, these manufacturers are going to be scrambling to get back into the consumer market.

[–] DerEnder@lemmus.org 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

A lot. And it's not limited to money. Netflix: The best series are getting stopped produced or go into the shitter. And then they rised the price for non-ad versions. Reddit: Deleted my account when they stopped giving API away (RIF my beloved). And now I can't even read threads without an account. (Also: yay, finally made it here!) Facebook: Deleted my account years ago already and not looking bad. Bad and confusing algorithms, spreading of misinformation and conspiracies, fake globetrotter, stealing and selling personal informations to advertisers and whatnot... I don't need that in my life. Twitter/X: It already got slightly bad, but Musks takeover was like 5 of the 10 nails in the coffin. And seeing how quickly it went down... Good riddance. YouTube Premium: I thought I'd give something back to content creators for all the years of entertainment. But Googles fight against smaller creators, Ad-Blocker and apparently it's own user base made my back down, cancel my subscription and use Firefox instead. It's bad that the only choice is an Android or Apple Phone, the choice between a rock and a hard place. Microsoft: okay, I didn't fully transition. I took my gaming notebook and installed Linux CachyOS on it to try things out. It works great, and It feels better that using windows. But I guess for my PC, I'll do a dual boot or something first.

[–] Ashiette@lemmy.world 1 points 19 minutes ago

About the microsoft thing : you're absolutely right. Dual boot all you want, don't go too fast and take your time. If you switch in five years so be it, if it's sooner all the better. Don't be afraid to distrohop to find what's best for you. Oftentimes you start with a distro and end up with something else.

I started with Ubuntu in ~2006, never got to get my modem working with eagle-usb and had to abandon ship. Went back in 2009 with Fecora then OpenSuSE : was quite thrilled because it was way better than Win7 lite on an eeePC equivalent. Then switched PCs and against all odds really liked Windows 8.

I never quite got around Win 10 when it came out and slowly started looking at Linux again. Went through Zorin (best for starters!) then Mint, Debian, Ubuntu again, Fedora again, Pop!_OS, then quite find an interest in Manjaro but shit broke too often for me so I said "fuck it, it relies on Arch so how hard could it be?" (Spoilers : really hard when you try working with btrfs and LUKS and you're quite a novice).

Finally I tried NixOS and thought that anyone who got time for that shit ain't got life outside of that so went back to Arch.

Anyways I use arch btw and thanks for listening to my TED talk.

[–] PissMissile@lemmy.world 34 points 5 hours ago (4 children)

Pizza. Getting pizza for the family shouldn't cost over $70. Hell, eating out and fast food are exorbitantly expensive.

[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 16 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

And yet the workers are still making shit wages. It’s absurd.

[–] Endarys@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago

Welcome to capitalism.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I now just buy the large ready-to-bake supreme pizza at Aldi and just enhance it by adding mozarella and other toppings at home. $8 plus maybe $2 worth of extra stuff I put on it. Just like sushi, I really can’t justify paying too much for it when eating out.

[–] PissMissile@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Costco pizza is legit too

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[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Razor blades. Much better to go with a single-razor housing, even if occasionally the multi-razor shaves feel like a smoother result.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@piefed.social 13 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (3 children)

Vehicles.

Most days my ride is a bike and when I do drive it's in a manual that's almost old enough to get a driver's license itself.

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 4 points 4 hours ago

that’s almost old enough to get a driver’s license itself

Bruh. As far as I'm concerned, a car under 20 years old is a huge luxury.

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[–] dlsloop@lemmy.zip 120 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (12 children)

Streaming services of any kind. I've got a jellyfin server now that has everything I need.

It was fine when they were $5 a month, but this $20 a month bullshit is insane. And what do you mean I can't share one account with the family if we're not on the same network, get real.

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